Such things cannot just be done at anyone’s whim and this trip took several meetings with all the right people to organise properly and appropriately.
The Village Elders |
So finally we set out early on a Monday morning heading up and over the hills with a short stop to take in the view right across the land they would be crossing to the ‘bush,’ where they would meet 18 or so esiangikis of the same age. The four car cavalcade wound down the hair pin bends to the bottom of the escarpment and out across the dry landscape, sending a rising cloud of dust into the clear air. In the distance were tall brown spirals of dust devils with the broad dark base of distant mountains as a backdrop.
Miles and miles of bush....and dust.... |
When we arrived at the village school the students stood around in simple dark blue uniforms and watched as the English girls climbed out of the minibuses in long multicoloured dresses with their bags and bottles of water. A shy meeting between the two took place at a ‘safe’ distance while they checked each other out.
From the school we drove on to the meeting place all packed together in the pick up climbing up through deep korongos (dry river beds) in low ratio to the delight of the students. As we came through the trees to the camp, there was a choir of esiangikis dressed in all their finery singing a welcome in Kimaasai to all the girls. As each dismounted and walked into the smiling crowd they were greeted by an esiangiki who took off her bead necklace and put it around each girl’s neck and then they all began clapping and swaying to the song, a group of delighted western girls being welcomed by a group of delighted Maasai girls.
Hello! |
The village chairman and secretary were there in their best suits, sitting dignified on the bench with the school teachers, and in groups around were various morani and some of the husbands of the esiangikis. Passing in and out of the crowd were inquisitive herd boys attending sheep and goats coming down to be watered.
Everyone was fed and had a cup of sweet chai (tea), and then we started our cultural exchange. Each side asked a question in turn - each group had been preparing what they would like to know. The Maasai went first with the question ...
‘Amongst us, boys are circumcised with a knife and girls are circumcised with a razorblade, what do you use?’ There was a pause as the western girls listened intently to the translation. The men standing around were smiling knowing what the question was. As the interpreter finished there was a synchronised gasp as 15 faces looked up in horror and shook their heads.
‘We don’t do that,’ they said and all the men laughed. The difference was emphatic and dramatic and other questions naturally followed ... The historic traditions of the Maasai culture and the journey of these girls within that culture was explained. Questions followed about boys and husbands, followed by more about babies and marriage arrangements.
Question time |
The two groups worked in similar ways with their quieter members not saying much but listening with interest whilst the more engaged and voluble members carried the conversation.
At the end the English girls stood up and gave a hearty rendition of a school song as well as another sung in a round with a finale of their favourite pop song, all of which was loudly appreciated by the Maasai. The journey home was quieter as tired girls pondered the day’s events. Everything had been said and now it was time to commit it all to memory and experience. Despite the huge cultural differences, they were all just teenage girls underneath.